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Wednesday, 12 October 2016

Don't encourage girls to have 'one-night-stands' - Kemi Olunloyo to Toke Makinwa

Controversial Kemi Olunloyo is at it again. This time, she took to her Twitter handle to pen an open letter to Media Personality Toke Makinwa.

This followed after Toke’s advice video to her army of fans who are mostly women if not only women, started trending on Twitter.

In this clip which lasts for 60 seconds, Toke Makinwa tells her ladies that they should have all the fun they want till they hit the age of 25. She wants them to live life on the edge, kiss strangers, have one night stands, pierce multiple parts and have a tattoo. But Kemi is so not in on her advice.

Hence she wrote Toke an open letter and it reads:

After watching Toke’s popular vlog, I agree that her videos are not for everyone. Definitely not for parents who have daughters. I said in 2007 that I am not a role model but a mentor. Only your motherly figure should be your role model. Role models fall from grace. Toke Makinwa, the beautiful successful OAP and Youtube star sadly failed in her marriage because another woman Anita Solomon had a one night stand with her estranged husband Maje Ayida who went back for more.

Anita simultaneously dated Ayida for 8 years alongside Toke for 12 years. What Toke may not realize is that GIRLS are going to become women & mothers some day. I said may. Toke Makinwa pls don’t encourage them to have one night stands. Unwanted pregnancies have occurred time and time again. Some women have contracted the lifelong pain of HIV and some dealing with single motherhood and poverty.

I have never been married and left an abusive relationship with my two children to become a single mom. I have no daughters but Im a feminist to the core. Many women were raped after one night stands and were too ashamed to tell the police. Don’t ever kiss strangers. There is no etiquette in that. It’s selling yourself cheap. While officer Sanguietti of the Toronto Police told us in the room not to dress like sluts to avoid being raped, a global movement began #slutwalk.

We dont have to wait for Oprah to march in the walk to get the message across. Toke we don’t have to wait for you to send a bad message across. Your sponsors, advertisers, humanitarian and activist groups are watching. As fierce, assertive and outspoken as I am, I urge you to retract the video message. Today is #internationaldayofthegirl #DayoftheGirl #internationaldayofthegirlchild. Change the mind of a girl.

I always call Rihanna my daughter. You are my Nigerian daughter! Best wishes darling!! You are our STAR!!“

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